The Climate Lemon

Calling someone an ‘environmental hypocrite’ is toxic and here’s why

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Woman buying fresh packaging-free fruit in a local store. But look at those food miles!!! Photo by Eddi Aguirre // Unsplash

Have you ever noticed how often people that are trying to live a more ethical or sustainable lifestyle are accused of being an environmental hypocrite?

All the damn time!

And I’m so fed up with it.

Look, obviously it’s bad to be hypocritical, and it’s totally fair if people call you out on it.

But here’s the thing.

Most of the time it’s not actually hypocrisy, it’s just failing to be perfect. It’s for doing some good things and not doing everything. And to call someone a hypocrite for that is just BS.

I think so anyway. Others such as George Monbiot, blogger Felicia of Mind Tomorrow and  Sami Grover on TreeHugger take the view that being an environmental hypocrite is just ‘irrelevant and inevitable’. I see what they’re getting at.

But I just think these criticisms often really stretch the meaning of hypocrisy.

Telling someone how bad it is to drive and then hopping in your car is hypocritical. Telling someone how bad it is to drive on your phone that was made from rare minerals and manufactured in a fossil fuel powered factory is not hypocritical, or at least not in a comparative way.

Here’s some examples of the kind of accusations I’ve come across, either online or to me or my friends and family:

  • You think you’re so ethical buying organic and natural products, but you drive a car!
  • If you’re vegan but use medication tested on animals you’re a hypocrite!
  • You’re a hypocrite if you say you’re vegan for the environment but have kids!
  • Buying local food is hypocritical if you’re buying high-street sweatshop clothes!
  • Criticising capitalism from your iPhone or laptop is the height of hypocrisy!
  • You can’t protest against Big Oil because you rely on roads!

There are so many more examples. Feel free to share your own in the comments. But you get the picture.

What annoys me so much about this is the implicit underlying assumptions that:

  • You think you’re a perfect faultless being and they are cleverly catching you out
  • As you can’t be perfect, there’s no point trying

I think both of these are toxic. Most people are acutely aware that they aren’t perfect, and don’t need to be reminded of this. And it’s incredibly obvious that lack of perfection is no excuse to just give up and do nothing.

So why do people do this? Insecurities

There’s a common stereotype of environmentalists, vegans, and people that don’t fit a label but are just trying to live a more sustainable lifestyle, that they act all smug and superior and think they’re better than everyone else.

Now, I’m not saying there’s not people like that. Of course there are. But I don’t think they’re anywhere near as common as some proclaim.

You know what? I think this stereotype is mainly just a projection. Imagine this…

Someone sees you forgoing the beef because it’s so high carbon, and they start bitching about how it’s hypocritical because you eat other meat and you drive a car and you went on a plane last month and you use electricity and so on. You’ve never claimed to be zero carbon, you’re just trying to start somewhere.

Why do they feel the need to point out you’re ‘not perfect’ when you never claimed to be?

I think it’s because they suddenly feel insecure and guilty they aren’t making an effort like you are, and feel defensive that you or others are judging them and this defensiveness makes them lash out to try to bring you down so they don’t feel inferior compared to you. Even though you never suggested they were, it was just in their head.

That’s my hunch. What do you think?

Perfection is impossible – and that’s okay

Let’s be honest, making choices to live a more ethical or sustainable life take effort. It would be easier to just go with the flow. And going with the flow tends to mean high carbon, lots of plastic waste, lots of chemicals etc. Even if you try really hard and make this your priority, you still won’t be able to eliminate 100% of negative impact on the environment, animals or people.

This is because the global economic system is screwed up. It’s unsustainable and exploitative in a very systemic way. By just existing in this system, we can’t help but contribute to that to some extent. That’s why I always say fighting for systemic change is more important than lifestyle change.

But, and this is a huge but, that doesn’t mean we should just not bother. Would you do that with anything else?

  • I’m not going to be a millionaire so I won’t even bother getting a job
  • I probably won’t get into Oxbridge or Harvard so I won’t bother applying for any university
  • I can’t have a mansion so might as well be homeless
  • I’m not a gourmet chef so guess I’ll just cook Super Noodles and nothing else

If you were that ‘all or nothing’ with any other aspect of life it would be absurd. So, don’t be like that with sustainable living.

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Every small thing does make a difference. Okay it will be a small difference, but it is something, and it adds up when you do it a lot of times and lots of other people do it as well. Being thoughtful in our consumption is one of the key forms of power citizens have.

More importantly, if people are held to an impossible standard and think it’s either perfect or nothing, they will opt for nothing. Whereas if people are encouraged that everything counts, they will be more likely to do something, and that multiplied by a lot of people is huge.

E.g. if a thousand people significantly reduce their meat and dairy intake and choose more veggie and vegan options, this has more impact and is more achievable than say 100 people going vegan and then most of them lapsing and going back to their daily bacon burger habit.

Also, people’s circumstances and personalities mean that they find different things easier or harder. For example, I find it quite easy to be vegan. But I really struggle with reducing my waste. Somebody else might find it way easier to give up plastic than cheese.

If someone is making the effort to do even one good thing, don’t berate them for not doing another thing as well, or instead. Don’t say they’re doing it to be high and mighty. And don’t feel like it makes you a bad person by comparison.

And if you’re making an effort with something and getting hate for it, just ignore the negativity and do what you can. You’re contributing to a movement that will – someday – make sustainable living just normal and convenient and default.

So, being perfectly ethical and sustainable in this economy is impossible. And making any kind of positive changes to your lifestyle takes effort and thought – so it’s commendable.

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  • This response right here is the hypocrisy people are actually speaking about.. “I wonder too, if those who might call me hypocritical use that as an excuse not to make any changes in their own lives, kidding themselves that unless they go the whole hog, their actions will be worthless” – You assume that if someone calls you an environmental hypocrit, that they are using it as an excuse to do nothing themselves? Did it ever occur to you that you may actually be a hypocrit? How do you know what other people are doing? Maybe the people you refer to are also making changes, or even doing more than you, but the difference is they don’t talk about it all day. They just do it. When someone promotes themselves as an environmentalist, they sacrifice a lot more than the average person who does not claim to be an environmentalist. They lead the way, otherwise they are a hypocrit. A true environmentalist does go the whole hog; does make sacrifices. Nobody is perfect but most of us are hypocrits. Today’s so-called ‘environmentalists’ sacrifice very little to better the environment or humanity and only do what is convenient for them – making sure to look good on social media whilst doing it.

  • The trouble is there are so many contradicting issues…

    Eating gluten makes me really ill but a lot of gluten free options are not vegan. I get the vegan stuff when I can but sometimes let a little bit of egg slide if I need to eat.

    I have tried to cut down on single use plastic but gluten free and organic foods are usually wrapped in plastic to insure they’re not contaminated. Eating organic is really good for the planet, but plastic is bad. Also veg boxes are usually expensive and so are organic farm shops so I can’t always afford them. So I try when I can but I don’t give myself a hard time if it’s not possible that day.

    I think you’re totally right, it’s impossible to do everything perfectly but also part of the hypocracy thing is because people essentially “choose” something that they care about the most. For me that’s the sea, because it holds so much Co2, cools the planet, creates intricate weather systems, not to mention a whole world of habitat it provides. So I gave up fish wayyy before I gave up dairy, it’s the reason I try to reduce my plastic and I don’t use any chemicals that could end up there. I’m so passionate about it that when I see someone eating fish it upsets me, even if they cycle everywhere and are otherwise fairly green. My point is that everyone takes their cause personally, so when they see someone trying in one area who isn’t on board with what they care about they say “how dare you” which, as you say, is totally counter productive. I think a sensible, compassionate and supportive chat exploring our reasons for choosing the fights we choose would be much more beneficial and successful.

    Also, I find it absolutely hilarious that on a post about “hey, let’s maybe not make assumptions and attack each other for not being perfect” you get comments with big assumptions and personal attacks for not being perfect 🤣

    I think you’re amazing for everything you do Tegan xxx

    • Thank you so much for reading and your thoughtful comments Yasmin! And for your very kind words 🙂
      Very good point about how it’s often an issue of prioritisation as people find it hard to understand why someone else has basically not chosen the same ethical priorities as them in the minefield we find ourselves in! That’s if they are coming from a genuine place that is, unlike those who just want to bring others down out of spite or their own guilt. As you say this post did itself attract quite a bit of that lol. You don’t want to see the comments I deleted because they were really abusive from hysterical climate deniers…

  • What I hate is when celebrities get on massive yachts owned by middle eastern oil tycoons and eat $5,000 a plate endangered fish AND THEN Bitch at me for driving a fucking car. LEONARDO DICAPRIO! That IS hypocritical!

  • climate change hypocrisy is everything. Things are getting worse because of hypocrisy. If you don’t believe it, I’m going to go burn some fossil fuel right now just like everyone else and then blame it on someone else. This needs fixing or anything else you say is crap and meaningless.

  • I agree with Mat. If you are a lazy bastard allways driving car and likes idling your car you are a polluter and you are poisoning your fellow human beeings. What is wrong with bicycles? You can go by bike on your holidays and use a tent for sleeping in. It is you in all theese fucking cars thinking you help the environment by doing this that is the big problem. You are fucking lazy. All you using fossile fuels every where just for your amusement.. All of you using round up in your garden.

  • Thank you so much for bringing this up as well! Nice that you linked to my blog! I noticed this only now as sadly I actually have stopped blogging in a personal and did not see the link earlier. Instead I am now keeping a website called Spark Sustainability 🙂

  • Sorry Tegan, but you’re an idiot. I was told that early in life and learned from it.

    It’s pretty easy to prevent climate catastrophe;

    – Don’t drive a car.

    – Never go on vacation ever again.

    Can you do that? Will you do that?

    I’m assuming no. Or a pre processed liberal version of NO that doesn’t say anything at all.

    Point being, if you won’t do those 2 very simple things, then you are an environment hypocrite.

    But that is the new progressive. I miss the old liberals.

    • Oh great! Glad you’ve solved it, Matt. I don’t drive a car and can’t really afford vacations so I guess I’ve solved the climate catastrophe all by myself! Amazing.

      In the real world of course, while not driving or flying obviously cuts emissions, one person, or even every person (as utterly unfeasible as that is), doing this is not enough and we need more systemic change of the whole economy. As I describe in my posts.

      Also using personal insults is kind of against my comment policy but I’m letting this one slide.

  • It’s not about imperfection. You must be closer to what you preach, then what you preach about. There are too many climate hypocrites that don’t even try to practice what they preach. Hollywood celebrities are the worse at this. Making an effort and failing from time to time is human nature. Not caring about what you say is hypocrisy.

  • I think it’s a bit like parenting, and certain people’s attitudes on what is the best way to parent. Theres is no such thing as perfect and we all need to do our best, with what we have and work with.
    Thank you for sharing!

  • I blogged about this in a similar way, questioning if I could really call myself green because I do not live the perfect green life (which aactually does not exist). The fact is, I do what I can and make compromises where I have to. I wonder too, if those who might call me hypocritical use that as an excuse not to make any changes in their own lives, kidding themselves that unless they go the whole hog, their actions will be worthless. That is, of course, completely untrue and all our individual actions work together for the greater good. #GoingGreen

    • Thanks Rosie. “I wonder too, if those who might call me hypocritical use that as an excuse not to make any changes in their own lives, kidding themselves that unless they go the whole hog, their actions will be worthless” – I think you have the nail on the head there!

  • Thank you for this post!!! This kind of attitude – bashing people for not doing it all perfectly – makes me so upset and angry and whatever. I joined a Zero waste group on Facebook some time ago to get tips on how to reduce waste and so on. While most people are great and supportive and inspiring, there are some who will always think that “ok, but you still do this and that” and I really hate it.
    I’m one of those who can’t give up cheese but I’m seriously cutting down on plastic (although I’m struggling to find alternatives for certain things). And I love every single step anyone can do towards a more sustainable lifestyle!! Every little thing helps, as you say to make sustainable choices more normal, more default, to inspire people to do the same. But we’re all different and have different ends where we can start!

    • Thanks Susanne! I’m glad the post resonated with you. And I totally know what you mean! To be honest I find the zero waste community can be a little intimidating to newbies for this reason. It’s well meaning of course but not helpful! Thanks again for reading and commenting 🙂

  • NO, because it’s bullshit, Don’t advocate what you don’t participate, Don’t legislate what you can bypass. It’s not the person in the Lexus who drove fifty miles to get a bag of organic berries. The biggest hypocrites are the largest ultimate purveyors. Politicians, Diplomats and Celebrities.

  • Hey Tegan, thank you for this wonderful article. I’ve always felt this way and i’ve experienced this all the time with some people around me (for e.g. they say that if i’m truly going zero waste, I shouldn’t be taking the car – I sometimes feel like I have no response to these people… and give up explaining myself). But you’ve managed to pen this down in such a relatable manner and I’m totally vibin’ with you <3

    I hope that people will be more positive and more conscious about their comments to others. We're all trying after all 🙂

    • Thanks Fengxian for such a lovely comment. I totally get you! If you’re trying to go zero waste that’s awesome and way more than most people are doing. Keep it up and don’t let them get you down! 🙂

  • Brilliant writing which clearly resonates with a lot of people, you have a voice which needs to be heard. Keep being brilliant!

  • Thank you so much! So so true. I’ve intuitively been aware of this, but you put it so well. It helps us to continue and also it’s an empowering argument when bumping into these depressing accusations again. I really feel they won’t manage to put me down again!

  • I commented on an online article about stopping the use of disposible plastic straws that I had bought some reusable hard plastic straws to carry to restaurants. I got 3 replies about how bad they also are and will just end up in a landfill as well and why would I do that. Geez…it’s something.

    • Thanks Z, that’s exactly the kinda thing I mean! So harsh and unhelpful to just shut someone down like that when they are making an effort to do something. What were they doing to help? Probably nothing! Cheers for reading and commenting.

  • I mainly agree with you. Throwing the ‘hypocrite’ label at others is usually a way of deflecting attention from yourself. Of course no one is perfect. My own definition of hypocrisy is when you tell others to do what you yourself don’t – ie your example of someone who drives, unless they follow it up by admitting they are not perfect themselves in this respect.

    It’s a fair topic. Ultimately the environmental crisis is about raising awareness and changing habits. That’s uncomfortable, so expect the labels to come flying!

    • Thanks Clive! I think you are spot on with the deflection point, and also that this mud-slinging is probably inevitable given how emotive the whole issue of climate action and sustainable living is… Thanks again for reading and commenting.

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I'm a passionate sustainability enthusiast, blogger and communications professional. I live in Brighton, UK, with my boyfriend and tortoise. Can usually be found reading, writing or eating chickpea burritos. Wanna chat? I'm at @TeganTallullah on Twitter.

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